Thursday, September 29, 2005

Wedding bells and Oxford smells

No it doesn't, it just rhymes well with bells.

However, I have already noted that Oxford is home to some of the slowest moving elderly ladies and gentlemen I have ever encountered. What is slower than very slow shuffling? That is 10 times faster than whatever they are doing.

Last Friday 23 September saw me trek from London to Dunkeld, Scotland for the wedding of two good friends of mine, both English doctors who studied and now practise medicine in Edinburgh. It started with a train, then a plane, then a car and then a train and then a car but I made it and it was worth it because I had a great weekend.

I was greeted by Joy McLoughlin, a relative of my mother, at Edinburgh airport and she took me to lunch at a restaurant overlooking the Firth of the Forth. Try to say that five times really quickly! Go on. Do it, do it.

From there I caught the train to Dunkeld which is in pictureque Perthshire. Dunkeld is a very pretty town with an ancient Cathedral on the banks of the River Tay and so it is a popular wedding and conference destination. Sadly neither my photos of Joy or Dunkeld would upload on this site. You will just have to take my word that it really happened.

On Friday night, I and about thirty other young guests were treated to dinner by the bride and groom at Newmiln House, a stately home where the Bride's family were staying during the wedding weekend. The night started well for Niamh's sister Kora who left the hand brake off her friends Mercedes which then slipped down a steep hill crashing through a tennis court fence.

It needed to be dragged out by a farm tractor. I sat next to the owner of the Mercedes during dinner and it turned out it was not her car but her bosses car. The damage to the car was minimal, the damage to the fence was extensive, however it did not seem to bother anyone (perhaps Mr Stone was concerned) and it was quite a memorable start to the wedding celebrations. I think I said to Mrs Stone (Niamh's Mum) on meeting her for the first time how exciting the car through the fence looked to which she replied "No, it is not". It was a surreal moment.

The wedding day was a beautiful sunny one and I sat in the sun by the banks of the river for as long as I could before I had to get ready for the wedding. It all went very quickly. Niamh and Andy were married in the private chapel on the Murthly Estate. Technically it was called The Chapel of St Anthony the Eremite but for some strange reason I kept calling it St Anthony the Excrement. Freudian slip.

There were drinks in the grounds of the Castle as the sun began to set we all piled into a large Marquet also in the Castle grounds. I had a brilliant time at the wedding and was made to feel very welcome by both the Stone (Niamh) and Lucking (Andy) family and their friends. I was seated at a special table and they even left a bottle of Bundy Rum at my table seating which was quickly consumed after the dinner was over and the dancing had begun. Much to my irritation none of the photos I have of the wedding will upload to this site.

It was a late finish and an early start on Sunday morning as the very nice B&B owners from "The Pend" in Dunkeld drove me all the way to Perth to catch a train back to Edinburgh. They had in fact driven me to all my engagements from the minute I moved into their B&B such was their high level service and did not ask for any money in return. Peter even lent me his cuff links as I had forgotten mine. If ever you are in Dunkeld, stay with Peter and Marina Braney at the Pend on 5 Brae Street, as they and their lovely West Highland Terriers Molly and Bridie will make you feel right at home.

The only thing I can recall about the train journey to Edinburgh was being forced to sit next to a bunch of teenage D&D players who would not shut up about wizards, monsters and things called Fire Penguins. Apparently you can be turned into one if you pick a bad card from the deck. Footnote 1. I will encourage my children to follow any of their interests in life, with the exception of Dungeons & Dragons, it is without question the most obvious form of social suicide known to man.

Sunday afternoon I arrived back at Phil's in Clapham and took advantage of the great weather to go for a run on the Common to test out my dodgy hamstring. I took it nice and slow but it seemed to go pretty well. The next morning I packed my gear after shouting my host a quick coffee, who I hope to see in Chamonix over the winter, I headed into Victoria Station to bus it up to Oxford.

My first tentative steps in my new home in Oxford involved reporting to the lodge at St Peter's College to collect a key to my house and room. I was met by a very nice Porter (traditional title for the blokes who man the reception desks in Oxford colleges) called Paul who was straight out of the Front Row Forward Factory (if only Australia could produce as many 20 stone gorrillas at the UK, the Wallabies would be sitting pretty). He immediately liked the fact that I was from Australia and I play rugby. My first new friend.

I then made my way to my new home in 33 St Margaret's Road, North Oxford. On arrival I was pleased to discover that the room I had been assigned was massive with large windows. I was surprised to see how small the bed was by comparion. It was something out of that wacky out of scale room in Alice in Wonderland. You know, you keep walking towards the bed and it gets smaller and smaller and eventually you can pick it up in and place it on the palm of your hand.

You may wonder why I would mention Alice in Wonderland but it is probably because the Eagle and Child, famous watering hole of Tolkien and Carroll is relatively close to where I live and I had pints there last night.

Anyway, I won't go it to too much more detail about what I have done in the 3.5 days since I have been in Oxford but it has involved loads of walking around trying to get stuff done. I now have some pretty decent blisters on my feet and so a bike may become a necessary mode of transport afterall. Needles to say I have had two out of my three evening meals so far at the Bear just so I can feel more at home in this place.

That is about it from me for the time being. I am slowly relaxing in my new surrounds and getting to know my housemates (14 in total including Britons, Russians, Italians, Americans, etc) before moving more into the business school scene with the first organised activity on Saturday afternoon. It will all then become very busy with a stream of both College and Business School induction events next week and so I will update this site again once they are all finished.

My tiny cot Posted by Picasa

My spacious study Posted by Picasa

My home in St Margaret's Road, Oxford. My room is second floor to the right of the door with the large windows and with the curtains open.  Posted by Picasa

Murthly Castle, on the Murthly Estate, venue for Niamh and Andy's wedding. Posted by Picasa

Friday, September 23, 2005

Sayonara Sydney, Bye Bye Brisbane and Hello UK

Sorry for the delay in making my next entry. Leaving Australia and arriving in the UK in a semi-organised fashion has been a full time job. It began on 2 September 2005 when I finished up at the PGA after 2.5 years in the Sydney headquarters. I was completely blown away by the generosity of my work mates in sending me off with a fine lunch and an assortment of gifts. In fact througout my last week in Sydney I was treated to lunches and dinners and special thanks goes to Toddy and Kristin for Sunday Roast, Hinesy and Shuri for a quality Japanese feed, Sanjib Morgan and the guys from Team America for Sanjib's 'wold' famous 'Donkey Ghosht'. All i can say is "Durka, Durka, Durka."

My last day at the PGA was followed by my 30th Birthday weekend. This involved watching my rugby team win the minor premiership (I was sidelined with injury) on Saturday, dinner for about twenty at Tre Scalini's in East Sydney and then yum cha at Sea Treasure in Crows Nest with my sister Jane and Dad's cousin Phil on Sunday.

I thoroughly enjoyed all of these activities, however, the personal highlight for me was beginning my weekend with a romantic dinner for two at Wildfire on circular quay on Friday night with the loveliest girl I have ever met. For the sake of privacy I will keep her name out of my diary, but she knows who she is and how much she means to me.

My last activity before leaving Sydney was to lunch at Bondi Icebergs before walking from Bondi to Coogee with my sister Jane. It was great to have a good long yarn to my sister who will be returning to live in Japan at the end of September. I wish her the best of luck and thank my brother Richard and his partner Stuart for ensuring that she could make it down from Brisbane for my 30th celebration.

My almost two week stay in Brisbane was extremely hectic to say the least: lunches with relatives, dinners with friends, physotheraphy appointments for a torn hamstring, wisdom teeth extractions, weddings, Gold Coast sanity visits all squeezed in and around as many catch ups with my lovely new girlfriend that I could possibly arrange.

I am very sorry I could not spend more time with my parents during this time. I know they were dissappointed but I could not have done any more in such a limited amount of time without offering myself as a radical experiment in human cloning. In any event, I hope that any short term dissappointment is soon overshadowed by pride in what what I am trying to achieve by studying for an MBA in the UK.

I arrived in London at 5.30am on Wednesday 21 September 2005 and made my way to Lavender Hill where I am staying with my old law firm mate, Phil Davis. It is very nice to be in a part of London that I am familiar with and it was quite easy for me to walk to Michael Bruderlin's Battersea pad for a great dinner with him and Michael Schmidt last night. Yesterday was spent cruising around Clapham including some sunning in Clapham Common. The weather has been very mild so far and it is still daylight saving here. I will savour it while it lasts.

That is enough from me. The next entry will be from my new home in Oxford from where I will be able to report on Niamh and Andy's wedding in Dunkeld, Scotland this weekend.

Thursday, September 22, 2005


Sunrise on Main Beach. Posted by Picasa

Burkie, Mrs B & Alex Posted by Picasa

Juni & Brooke at the wedding reception Posted by Picasa

Anna and Tim's Big Day Posted by Picasa

CL AGM: Frazer, Belly & Bob Posted by Picasa

Club Loser AGM at the Story Bridge Hotel: Charlie, Geoff & Alex Posted by Picasa

A Farewell lunch with Dad, Auntie Lee and Mum Posted by Picasa

BC, Morgs, Doug and Stewart having a Harvey Wallbanger after my 30th Posted by Picasa

Waller reps at my 30th: Richard, Doug & Jane Posted by Picasa

Toddy, Alison & Skelly at my 30th Posted by Picasa

The Colleagues Judd Cup Team, minor premiers who sadly lost the GF 12-6 to St Iggies Old Boys (Really, what kind of sad loser plays for a club formed from the their old school?)  Posted by Picasa

Me with Dr Groves - PGA Info Tech Guru, Philosopher and Great Wit. Posted by Picasa